DID I DO THE RIGHT THING?

I was to be married to the man of my dreams this past month. Im from the U.S. He from Nepal. We made plans to meet in Nepal. During my flight I started getting text msgs. and calls from my family. I chose to ignor it because they wern't crazy abov me marrying this man, except my eldest brother,he gave us his love and support. By the time I got to Singapore the calls were every 2 minutes. Making me nuts. So I answered turns ov my eldest brother had been shot . He was a police officer. They told me it didn't look good to come now. I told the man I was to marry...He wouldn't talk to me. I had to make a gut wrenching decision here.I begged him to talk to me. So after asking God to help me out here. I flew home. My brother ped before I made it. Well a month has past. I get an ugly email from the man of my dreams calling me ugly stuff. And tonight a phone call. Telling me I should have made the 4 hour trip on to Nepal then I could have went home. And how his family hates me. Ive never meant them. How I made him look bad infront of his family. He tells me Im the worlds most selfish person. Was I selfish ?