Monday, January 16, 2012
Poor guy(average) courting a rich girl....?
here's my problem: there's this girl i'm courting, and her family's really wealthy.. and i'm just poor/average i dont know... i'm really problematic if i should continue to pursue her or not, because i'm the guy and she's the girl and yet she's the one superior among the two of us.. and you guys get the situation right? you know how it is nowadays when the girl is richer than the guy then it's somewhat of a tight situation for the guy... i'm 20 by the way, and she's 19... i need help guys i'm seriously getting depressed because of this problem.. i really really like her and i'm dead serious about her being my life partner and it really makes me cry when i think about our social differences, i mean i heard her parents are strict and overprotective of her and all that, so what if her parents have a high standard and expectations when it comes to choosing a husband for their daughter?? what if they don't accept me for not being as rich as they are?? I am aware that love isn't about money, but come on guys look at the situation i am in, i am the guy in this relationship and i'm the inferior one, think about how that makes me feel... but i am honestly deeply in love with her and i really don't know what to do.. i'm graduating from college soon and i really hope i get a good job that pays me well so that i can earn lots of money to be able to sustain her in the future as a fitting husband... i need advices here guys, i don't want to stop pursuing her because it's already been long since i started to and i've fallen really deep for her... i don't want to let her go but it's just my family background and wealth status that's holding me back, it's just this hindrance/obstacle that is my problem right now, i'm starting to think all of this is my parents' fault but i know i shouldn't blame my parents because they raised me well like responsible parents but still i get the feeling of regret of not having to be blessed with good wealth like the girl i'm courting... hence i really feel inferior to her, not being deserving to love her and be her partner, but i really love her!!! and i don't know what to think or do! if i should stop this or continue to get hurt because of this!!! I need serious advices people..thanks...
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